Juggling Joy: Navigating Motherhood and Entrepreneurship with Three Boys Under Five

Hey there, I'm Evelyn – a mom of three energetic and spirited boys, all aged five and under. And oh yes, did I mention I'm also the proud owner of Toro Things Photography and Photobooths? Life in our household is a delightful chaos of tiny feet, candid snapshots, and a whole lot of love. But let me tell you, this journey of motherhood and entrepreneurship is nothing short of an exhilarating roller coaster ride.

When my husband Carlos and I decided to dive into the world of photography and photobooths, we knew it was going to be a God giving adventure. What we couldn't foresee was just how much this venture would intertwine with the daily joys and challenges of raising three young boys.

Mornings start with a symphony of giggles, and sometimes squabbles, as the boys race to see who gets to the breakfast table first. Between making sure everyone's dressed and fed, there's always a part of my mind occupied by the creative aspects of my business – envisioning the perfect shot, planning setups, and brainstorming ideas for the next event. Carlos is my secret weapon, working behind the scenes to keep everything running smoothly. He's the mastermind who ensures our photobooths are primed and ready to capture those candid smiles, even as he joins in on the breakfast madness.

Getting everyone out the door can feel like a mini victory in itself.

The boys, each with their unique personalities, keep me on my toes throughout the day. There are moments of laughter and exploration, and then there are those not-so-glamorous times when chaos reigns – toys scattered like confetti and a chorus of "mommy, look what I did!" echoing through the house. Yet, amidst the chaos, there's a certain magic in capturing these everyday moments. A candid snapshot of my youngest trying on his older brother's oversized shoes or the mischievous grins they exchange when they think I'm not looking – these are the snapshots that remind me of the beauty in the messiness.

But let's not forget our evenings, when the boys transform into little superheroes or bedtime becomes an epic adventure.

As Carlos and I tuck them in, we exchange knowing glances – it's time for phase two of our day. With the boys in bed, we become a tag team, tackling the business side of things. We discuss upcoming photoshoots, fine-tune our marketing strategies, and relive the laughter-filled moments captured by our photobooths. Carlos might be behind the scenes, but his support and dedication are the pillars that hold our dreams together.

I won't sugarcoat it – there are days when exhaustion tugs at my sleeves, and I wonder how I'm going to juggle it all.

Raising three boys while nurturing a business is undoubtedly challenging, especially with no family in the area to lend a helping hand. But it's these very challenges that fuel our determination to succeed. Every smile I capture behind the camera, every satisfied client who walks away from our photobooth, and every bedtime story shared with my boys remind me that it's worth every bit of effort.

So, to all the moms and entrepreneurs out there juggling their dreams and family life – remember, you're not alone. Embrace the chaos, find beauty in the ordinary, and let the laughter be your compass.

As for me, I'll continue capturing moments of pure joy – whether it's a candid snapshot of my boys, snapping that picture perfect moment from a family session or a heartwarming shot from our photobooth – each click of the camera is a reminder that love and determination can weave magic into even the most challenging of days.

As I navigate the twists and turns, I'm reminded that it's the laughter, the tears, and the moments captured in between that make it all worthwhile – a reminder that keeps me going, one snapshot at a time.

Evelyn Toro

Owner of Toro Things Photography and Photobooth

https://torothings.com/
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